Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Society’s Attitude towards Social Sciences (and their pursuit)
Monday, August 13, 2007
Musings...
Coffee has caffeine, water has pesticides, and the road can kill you — is life worth the risk?
Of course it is! And who says it’s a risk? Where there is life there is hope! To strengthen my argument, I quote Barry Lopez, “How is one to live a moral and compassionate existence when one is fully aware of the blood, the horror inherent in life, when one finds darkness not only in one's culture but within oneself? If there is a stage at which an individual life becomes truly adult, it must be when one grasps the irony in its unfolding and accepts responsibility for a life lived in the midst of such paradox. One must live in the middle of contradiction, because if all contradiction were eliminated at once life would collapse. There are simply no answers to some of the great pressing questions. You continue to live them out, making your life a worthy expression of leaning into the light.”
An even more beautiful quote is, “Life is like an onion: You peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.” Do we stop eating onions just because we may have to weep while peeling it? Then how can one say life isn’t worth the “risk”?
Life is full of opportunities. Agreed it has inherent dangers, but which coin doesn’t have two sides? It is incredibly pessimistic to have such an outlook of life. The true meaning of life lies in finding one’s true self, despite all the dangers along the way, exorcising as many of the demons as one can. . Life is a succession of moments – to live each one is to succeed.
Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity. They seem to be more afraid of life than death.
Coffee has caffeine… so what? If one has been drinking it for so many years and one is fine, then why bother one’s head about it? As it is coffee isn’t one of the essential ingredients to live life.
Water has pesticides… so what? “Purify your water before drinking”. Methods such as UV filtering, reverse osmosis and boiling have been discovered right? If one wishes to get to the root of the problem one can be proactive and insist that the municipal corporation provide us with quality drinking water. Abstaining from drinking water will kill you sooner than drinking water with minuscule amounts of pesticide.
The “road” doesn’t come alive all of a sudden and kill you, it is the people on the road that do. One moment of carelessness and irresponsibility can cost one one’s life. Just as charity, among many other things, begins at home, saving one’s life also begins somewhere thereabouts. We must start living responsibly and carefully and become more tuned to our surroundings. If this is done, the road will lose all its appetite for destruction.
In the same way, all of life’s dangers can be overcome. Each problem can be solved by using sound reasoning and incorporating conducive changes in our lives. As Dorothy Simpson says, “Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.” You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when. You can only decide how you're going to live. Now.
I shall conclude with one of my favourite quotes. It is from the movie “Forrest Gump” – “Life is like a box of chocolates… you never know what you get.” Do we refrain from eating chocolates???
Some Consolation...
It was a sad time for me to leave
“What are you doing?” (With reference to studies, obviously)
“FYBA, at
“Ah! Fergusson…” comes the response with a dreamy look in the eye.
“What are you doing?”
“SYBA. Psychology major, at
“Oh…
So, as a form of consolation, all my friends said, “It doesn’t matter…You will keep meeting us regularly… It is education that is more important. As it is, what’s so great about Fergie anyway? You’re going to study on your own in any case. Who asks about the college? It’s the
I found that the Psychology teacher in the new college was (is) far better than the teachers at FC (put together). When my friends came to know about this they said, “See… we told you you’ll do well…Good for you… It’s finally the quality of education and teaching that counts. Look at us – all we do is come here and crib about the teachers. You get the best among two lives… FC crowd and quality teaching…Lucky man!” I felt great and went about my routine with gusto.
Now, FC has opened up 20 more seats for Psychology major. I am in two minds whether to come back to FC. Naturally, I ask my friends for their inputs. Here’s what I got –
“Come back you twit!”…
“Look at the Fergie name man! How can you think of spurning such a chance?”…
“You seriously need a life man… there’s no life in Modern. These are our ‘carefree’ years. We need to enjoy. These days are going to be most memorable. You’ve gotta spend them in Fergie man.” …
“There’s only one pro for Modern – the teacher - but does a student like you really need a great teacher? Anyway you are going to study on your own. Mediocre teaching is hardly going to matter, right?”
What's an adolescent to do?
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Toungue in Cheek
Ever notice how the “older generation” repeatedly point fingers at us (the younger generation) for having an easy life? – “you have it all easy” they say “while WE had to slog… now THOSE were tough times.” This while referring to their teenage and young-adulthood. If only they knew…
We don’t have it easy at all!
We must be the only generation who has to do a
As for the prepaid schemes – consider the sheer number of schemes made available by a multitude of service providers. We have to keep abreast of all the new schemes, more than we do of our academic syllabus or university portion (for those remain the same for eons) .
And mobile phones – they should thank their stars THEY didn’t have to put up with these monsters. We have to recharge regularly, remember to instantly reply to any messages we might receive, respond to “missed calls” remember to switch the cell phones to silent mode when we enter the classroom, not to mention keep up with all the new models that come up.
For those of us who (like me) are into cyber gaming, there is even more catching up to do. This was one more aspect which was absent during their young-adulthood. Games meant hide and seek, tag, chain cook, hopscotch and the likes. All those aspects and more are incorporated in Counterstrike – the most popular game today. We have to hide from prospective enemies, run behind them and instead of tagging them we just shoot them. There’s a lot of “hopping” which goes on too. We have mastered all the games that were played in the yesteryears but let me see our folks coming near counterstrike? HA! Not a chance. Loads of other avenues here, but one prefers to be brief.
Now let us shift our focus to snacks. It was commonplace, in the times of yore, to go out with friends and have bhajiya and other similar snacks along with the inevitable “ek cutting chai” On special occasions it would be something better I suppose. We, on the other hand have to make a bunch of decisions to get a cup of coffee. We are confronted with words like cappuccino, mocha, decaf, etc. We also have to decide whether we want it hot or with ice, with sugar or caramel or do we want tea iced or otherwise, lemon or peach and so on. Easy? Far from!!!
When, in times of peace ( or “special occasions”) both groups decide to go out together we are the ones asked to make decisions because they find it difficult to use the correct terms in order to get the thing they want to. One could go on in this department too, but one chooses to be concise.
One more radical change that we have had to adapt to is the Multip (erp) lex and Mall (Maul) culture. For them it was simple. You want to watch a movie you go to the “talkies” chose balcony or stall, have soda and popcorn. For us it is not so simple. In fact, the folk of yesterday have deliberately plotted a fiendish scheme to make stuff more complicated for us, the teenagers of today. If we wish simply to go for a movie, we simply can’t! We have to walk miles WITHIN THE MULTIPLEX, choose screens not just a simple choice of balcony, etc; even in popcorn we are made to choose from umpteen different flavors. One thinks one goes for a movie, but ends up buying a pair of jeans, a few books, a mobile recharge, two T shirts, and a pair of goggles in the bargain. Ah! The agony of choice…!
As you may have noticed, I have made a small attempt at illustrating a brief glimpse of the reality we are faced with today. So before anyone thinks of saying “Ah! Young man/woman, you have an easy life” please take all this into consideration and think twice or thrice.
Many years down the line when I view my teenager’s life, as a responsible parent I shall say to him solemnly, “Sonny boy(or girl) , you DON’T have anything easy, in fact things are going to be thoroughly complicated and (multi) perplexing for you. Now, WE had things real easy… Ah! Those… Those were the days…!” Sigh!
-S. Bratt.